One question that online daters frequently ask is if hiring a professional to write their dating app bio will make a difference. The answer depends on the results that you are hoping to achieve from a professionally written profile.

What is your goal?

If you are considering working with a dating p...

We’ve all had the experience. You exchange a few texts with a cute guy. He seems kind of funny and you both enjoy the same kind of music and movies. So you agree to set up a date. You go to the date with a positive mindset, wondering, in the back of your mind, if this will be the date that ends all ...

Before you go on a date, you may want to decide what kind of date you want to have.

One way to do this is by setting an intention. What’s an intention? One of the best descriptions I have heard comes from Monica Berg, host of the Spiritually Hungry podcast.  She describes intentions as “how you are...

For the last couple of months, I have been trying to implement Most Important Task (MIT) an idea popularized by Leo Babauta.

The idea, which he outlines in his post Purpose Your Day: Most Important Task (MIT), is that your MIT is the task that you most need to get done today. He goes on to say that...

Most people don't wake up one morning, go into the kitchen to make a cup of coffee, and think, I need a dating coach. But, let’s imagine that you did wake up this morning and decide you needed a dating coach. Before you power up your favorite device and Google “dating coach” or “dating coach for wom...

I love Leo Babauta of Zen Habits. His newsletter is one of the few that I subscribe to. This week his topic was stillness. In it, he points out that while going on a meditation retreat is a great way to find stillness, it’s not the only way.

He challenges his readers to seek stillness in everyday l...

By the time most of my clients find me, they are ready to give up on dating. They have suffered through the awkwardness of first dates, the pain of being rejected, and they have analyzed their actions and their dates' actions ad nauseam and wondered what they are doing wrong.

They are discouraged a...

Recently a dating site surveyed its users and found that 88 percent would prefer to date someone who’s in therapy. This is a staggering number and it's best taken with a grain of salt.

First, it is well-documented that it can be tricky to get accurate information thru surveys. One reason for this i...

Those of you who follow my blog know that I am not a fan of changing yourself to find a partner. I believe that embracing who you are is the surest path to finding someone who loves you for who you are.

But what if you seem to attract the same type of guy over and over? The type of guy that breaks ...

As a dating and relationship coach, a question that I get asked frequently is “What’s the best dating app? Is it Bumble, Hinge, OKC?”  I also hear a lot of variations to this question including:

• What’s the best dating app for relationships?
• What’s the best dating app for women over 30, 40, or 50...

Did you set a New Years Resolution to get back on dating apps and make this the year that you find your Mr. Right? 

Good for you!  Committing to making this year the year that you achieve the dream that you have held in your heart for so long is courageous. I want to make it easier for you by shari...

When developing a dating strategy, it's important to identify the resources and support that you need to be successful. Wouldn’t it be great if one of the resources that you could count on when dating is a superpower that would help you determine whether the guy that you are dating is a keeper or a ...