Your 2025 Dating Goal: Have More Fun

Yes, modern dating has its challenges. Between ghosting breadcrumbing and the looming threat of AI dating, it’s no secret that dating can feel joyless and frustrating.

But, what if you could make dating a little less awful in 2025?  What if you could combine your New Year's resolution to find a loving committed relationship, with living a fuller, more joyful new year?

Here are a few ways to make dating in 2025 less awful and more enjoyable.

New Year’s Resolutions for dating in 2025 

Focus on the positive

Commit to finding something positive on every date. Even if the date isn’t your person, focus on the good aspects of the date. It may be a warm cup of coffee on a cold day practice, or perhaps you learned something new.  Focusing on the positive can transform dating into a more rewarding journey.

Plan to do fun things

Instead of defaulting to drinks or coffee, opt for activities you genuinely enjoy. Try a cooking class, a museum visit, or maybe finger painting.

Laugh

Say no to boring text messages. Make yours quirky and fun to read. Find ways to infuse your dates with humor. Even if the romantic spark isn’t there, you will leave the date smiling.

Celebrate your wins

Create a list of dating wins. Record those moments when you enjoyed something about the date. Did you dare to suggest something other than coffee? Were you able to stay positive?  Celebrate your achievements and consider how you can incorporate them into future dates.

Keep things light and easy

In the early stages of dating, avoid overthinking and forcing things. There is no need to worry about doing or saying the right thing when something is meant to be. The relationship will evolve easily and naturally. And, if it's not meant to be, nothing you can do will change that.  Let it drift away like a passing cloud.

Manage your expectations

Most first dates never go beyond one date. Your date is a stranger who you have agreed to spend 30 - 60 minutes getting to know a little better. Avoid setting yourself up for disappointment expecting too much. If a date goes well resist the temptation to fantasize about a future with this person. Appreciate the pleasant experience and wait to see what unfolds.

Set Manageable Goals

Being tired and over-committed is not fun or joyful. So, don't overwhelm yourself with too many dates or overly ambitious timelines. Focus on what you can realistically accomplish and feel confident what you can do will be enough.

Honor your boundaries

If something doesn't feel right, don't force it. If a date isn't enjoyable, politely cut your losses and move on.

Dating doesn’t have to be a soul-sucking ordeal. By shifting your mindset to creating positive experiences, you can transform dating into a fun, rewarding journey. Stay curious and open to what each experience brings. You’ll not only make dating less awful—you may start to enjoy it.

Good luck & Happy New Year!

About Me 

Hi, I’m Rachel and my coaching practice is dedicated to ensuring that successful professional women achieve the same success in their romantic relationships that they have in their careers.

If you are struggling to find a great partner to date or marry, I can help.

As a coach, I understand that each person's journey to a great partner is unique. That's why I offer customized coaching plans for your situation.

In our work together, we’ll uncover any patterns or beliefs that may be standing in your way and create a personalized path to help you move forward with confidence. I’ll be there to support you every step of the way.

If this resonates with you, let’s connect. A dating strategy session could be your first step toward creating the relationship you’re looking for.